Single of The Month

What attracts you most to the opposite sex?
A trustworthy  honest respectable individual. I believe that if there is no trust then there is nothing. I am a honest, some friends say brutally honest, straight up person so I always expect or look for the same in a partner.

What is the one thing they better not do?
He better not lie about his age, occupation, or education. I have ran into a lot of men that lie about their age and I think it's very immature and simple minded. If someone lies about something so small I can only imagine what else they may not be up front about. I rather be told the truth and you allow me to decide if I want to carry on or not.

What's the best way for someone to approach you?
I like to be approached with confidence, I don't like men to come up to me acting shy or don't know what to say and it's written all over there face that they are nervous....not a good look at all!

Who are you?
I am the mother of 2 beautiful boys, graduate of Benedict College and Webster University ( yes, I have beauty and brains ), hard working so I definitely play hard, love to travel, shop of course, and just live life to the fullest! I am from S. Carolina so I am a country girl at heart that loves to hang out with the family and believe in treating others the way I would like to be treated.  I feel that I am a " Queen" and love to be treated as one!

Short description of personality
I am a very cool down to earth fun loving person. I am told a sometimes that I am too honest and need to learn to sugar coat a little bit, that's not me and I am not the type of person to be fake or pretend to fit in or gained the likeness of someone. I feel that the truth hurts sometimes and I rather keep it real and  if you get offended or mad then that's fine with me, I would want to be told  about myself if need be as well. I never sweat the small things and even big things never get to me, I have some friends that tell me I seem to always be  happy and that I am just too positive...I take those statements as compliments and hope to inspire someone that may need inspiration.

What do you like to do?
 I love to shop, shop and shop! I also love traveling, hanging with my 2 boys, reading books, watching sports ( basketball is my favorite) yes, I am watching the NBA finals currently, and just living everyday as if it's my last. I feel like I am " Superwoman" sometimes because I am always busy and on the go, but I thank God for the strength he gives me to do all that I need and want.

What’s important to you?
My kids and family are very important to me, I am a country girl so I am very family oriented.

Short description of goals or things you want to do in life.
I would love to be able to travel around the world atleast once before I leave this place.

Describe your build preference.
I like a man that is taller than I am, maybe 5 foot 8 or better, nice slim to medium build, I am small and pretty petite myself so I wouldn't want a giant of a man. I like athletic built but not too much muscles and definitely not a big belly.

What type of personality do you like?
Someone that's confident, affectionate, open minded, hard working, sincere and willing to do what ever I want when I want. This isn't realistic either!!!

Turn-On's:
Well mannered, nice smelling cologne, well groomed, nice clean shoes  and knows what to say or do without even asking me... I like a man that observes and can figure out what I like or know what to do without me telling him to do so, it shows that he is smart and very observant.

Turn-Offs:
Liars, men that have no goals in life, not well groomed, sagging pants and dirty shoes. A man shoes tell me a lot about them and that is one of the 1st things I look at. I am also turned off when a man asks can he come over to my place and we have never been on a date or haven't known each other long....do people really invite strangers over??